tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6861052.post111605582532344259..comments2023-10-09T17:17:55.700+08:00Comments on Loving people is hard.: How likely? Very likely.Nevillehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09097953348219148953noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6861052.post-1117581060159836522005-06-01T07:11:00.000+08:002005-06-01T07:11:00.000+08:00I guess I'll just have to cross that bridge when i...I guess I'll just have to cross that bridge when it comes Anonymous. <BR/><BR/>And the grandparents will not get the baby b/c that is in writing, legally speaking (they do not want the baby to go to them---partially b/c they're divorced). So as to if the baby would go to me or not, I'm not sure. But again, I'm not assuming this would happen now. What if it happens in 12 years? Then what? It would be a different question then, wouldn't it?<BR/><BR/>Also, have you seen the kind of parents that are getting custody of their children nowadays???Nevillehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09097953348219148953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6861052.post-1116615542743868162005-05-21T02:59:00.000+08:002005-05-21T02:59:00.000+08:00All I am saying is this. I really doubt that you ...All I am saying is this. I really doubt that you would get custody of this child. I mean come on your name is not on anything. The Grandparents I am totally sure would be the ones that decide who the child goes to and I highly doubt that they are going to give this child to a single male that is in his early twenties. I just don't think it is possible or even smart of them. <BR/><BR/>Like I said before I would be extremely greatful for the relationship like you have with your friends but come. How really realistic is this?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6861052.post-1116254314436248792005-05-16T22:38:00.000+08:002005-05-16T22:38:00.000+08:00Neville - you are right on about your enthusiasm a...Neville - you are right on about your enthusiasm and your willingness to fulfill this role. I don't even know why this "anonymous" person is questioning it. Besides the awful thought of maybe stepping up to be a parent in CASE of the need, you get to be "Uncle" to the little guy/girl. (see my post: http://knittersgreenhouse.blogspot.com) Life is all about that - hang in there with your joy.Carolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14545146592743875490noreply@blogger.com